Every year at this time, my favorite spa holds a contest for moms in recognition of Mother’s Day. Unfortunately, however, it’s not a contest that you can enter by just being a mom. Like you can’t just waddle in there and show them your c-section scar or point to the twitch in your left eye and whisper, “They did that.”
The reason you can’t is because this is actually a “Mom Makeover” contest where the winner gets a full day of spa treatments. (Retail value: $15,000-ish, I’m guessing.) Basically, the way the contest works is that someone you know takes it upon themselves to nominate you for looking like shit. And, if you’re lucky, the spa judges will all agree that you look like shit. And if you’re luckier still, they’ll then collectively decide that you’re actually the shittiest looking mom in town. And then guess what happens? BOOM, your ugly ass is sitting pretty in the pedicure chair. Aww, yeah.
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, I WANT TO WIN THIS CONTEST.
In fact, I want to win it so much that I’ve been making a real effort to slide headfirst into decrepitude. For example, I skipped going to the gym for about a month, then went back last week and Rambo’ed my way through a 30-minute kettlebell workout. Correction: A 30-minute Turkish kettlebell work out. Which I assume was invented in a scary Turkish prison by some buff American heroin smugglers in the 70’s. Or maybe that’s Thailand I’m thinking of? Obviously my drug smuggling knowledge isn’t as sharp as it used to be back in the days when I hung out with mechanics and Tilt-A-Whirl operators.
Anyway, if you’ve never done a kettlebell workout, imagine taking a 15 pound weight that has a handle and swinging it between your legs and over your head about two million times. Or at least one more time than your gym nemesis Perfect Molly does so you can yell, “In your FACE, Perfect Molly in your stupid Lululemon outfit! EAT THAT ACTION.” (Note: Perfect Molly not to be confused with my other gym nemesi Granny Frypan and The Cracker. Those two hillbillies weren’t there that day because they were probably hog-tying something to eat later.)
Now, if you don’t know what happens to your body after a Turkish kettlebell workout, I don’t want to spoil the mystery. Let me just say two things: 1) ICU dosages of Motrin and 2) You’ll for sure be asked to climb into the bell-tower and get back to work. So I’ve got that “wow factor” going for me now, which is nice.
The other way I’ve been prepping to win the Mom Makeover contest is by sticking my iPhone directly on my cheek every time I make a phone call. This is an excellent way to make your complexion look like that of the miserable 16-year-old boy sitting in the dermatologist’s waiting room. Seriously, if I told you I’d been manning the chicken fryer at Popeye’s using only my face, you’d say, “I knew it!” But luckily my crop of adolescent pimples fits rather nicely on my premenopausal wrinkle farm.
Of course the best thing to do for a bad complexion is get a chemical peel at the spa, which I’ve done a few times. However, I always wonder how this type of thing was even invented. Did a German scientist drop a beaker full of acid one day and it splashed all over his face? Then two days later did his lab partner look at him and say, “My God, Guntar! Your skin ees now like une baby’s! Und where are your leetle crow’s feet? I don’t know because poof! They’re gone, mine moonchin! You are now totally spectahkular! Hello, Canyon Ranch? We haf da acid miracle cure for da laydees!” I don’t know. I got a D+ in high school Chemistry.
At any rate, I’m pretty sure that with my slovenly grooming skills and rapid aging and two grey eyebrow hairs, I have a really good chance of winning the spa’s Mom Makeover this year. In fact, I just had some professional photos taken to prove it.
See for yourself:
Wish me luck!

Where do I find this contest? If they’re offering a boob lift and undereye circle removal, I will stop plucking my gray hairs and leave my yoga pants on for a week.
“My God, Guntar! Your skin ees now like une baby’s! Und where are your leetle crow’s feet? I don’t know because poof! They’re gone, mine moonchin! You are now totally spectahkular! Hello, Canyon Ranch? We haf da acid miracle cure for da laydees!”
CACKLE!!
Earlier this year I did a 2 week course of topical chemo for a skin cancery almost thingamajig. Because I am a responsible consumer I looked that shit up online….about a week in to the treatment. You know what else they use that shit for? Chemical peels. So I’m never getting a chemical peel because AUGH!
I will say, though, that the non-cancery parts of my face look fabulous!
It’s the blue eyebrows that make you a shoo-in. Trust me.
Oh Wendi, you deserve this prize! Not for any ugliness factor, but for your fabulous bravado in letting us know and LAUGH about it — if my vote counts, YOU’RE IN!
If I were to try swinging a 15-pound kettlebell around my head, I’m pretty sure I would have ended up knocking myself out cold.
I feel like only grave injuries would occur if I ever tried to swing a kettleball. I would be a danger to myself and others for sure.
OMG I did kettleball once (not sure what flavor though.) It took WEEKS to walk normally.
I think I ran into Cracker at the AT&T store. Her not understanding the concept of a sign in sheet, me being next and the fact she had “shit to do”, all aided in her calling me the C-word. I kept it classy and asked how long she could be away from her wolf pups before they gnawed through her trailer tires.
Laughing, laughing so damn hard…
You are in lady!!
Yes on the phone thing! I never thought of that but I noticed my chin and cheeks were breaking out and then caught myself sleeping on my own hand and put two and two together. I was actually thinking of doing a blog on it and calling it “reverse whack a mole.”
Maybe tape a phone to your forehead too, just to be sure…
“You’ll for sure be asked to climb into the bell-tower and get back to work.”
My favorite line.
I’m kind of cheating right now because I wanted to comment on your More Mommy essay but I think the comments are closed for that post so I’m here to say this (while I wait for my slow slow (SLOW) laptop to open up the Shot @ Life page so I can donate. sheesh.):
My son Jack will turn 16 next month.
And I’d give anything to have him want More Mommy again.
Your posts are always so so (SO) funny. But this one actually made me teary-eyed.
Damn.
Gotta go hug my man-son now.
p.s. My laptop won’t open up that Shot @ Life link so I’ll try to get there through Nicole’s page. Great cause. Great women.