I have a lot of moving houses craziness going on this week, so instead of writing something new, here’s a little piece I wrote a few years back when we moved into the house we just sold. After this, I’m never moving again unless it’s by court order.
HOUSE: A GROWN UP FAIRY TALE
We bought our first house six years ago; pre-kid. And for the first two years we lived in it, things were very, very calm. Quiet. Serene, really. Nobody was home much, things worked the way they were supposed to work and the house was even treated to frequent cleanings and fresh paint jobs. In the house’s mind (which is located by the water heater), these were the salad days. There was nothing for it to do but just recline, relax and sink into its golden years.
And then the boys came along.
Suddenly the walls were under attack, the carpet was fighting to stay its original color and the hardwood floors were so wet, they thought they were back in the Oregon rainforest. Now the house found itself always occupied, always used and constantly, constantly noisy. Screams, cries and giggles filled its rooms, even in the dead of night. Toys beeped their way into previously unexplored corners. Every window had tiny finger smudges and every toilet was suddenly perplexed by its new importance. (“A ‘potty success’ chart in my honor? Really?”) Before long, the house became upset and angry. It felt betrayed by its owners. Why did they have to bring in these little intruders? The house didn’t want them. And, after all, it was there first.
So the house decided to fight back.
Floors suspiciously became uneven under a brand-new walker’s feet. Doors screeched to pinch chubby little fingers. Closets that once seemed roomy now seemed packed. Even the walls got into the act and invited scary shadows to flicker Midnight Monsters shows so terrifying, they propelled the boys out of their beds and into ours. Sure, you can live here, the house seemed to say, but I’m not going to make it easy on you.
In the end, the house proved a worthy opponent against the two little boys. So worthy, in fact, we started to think maybe it was too old, too unreliable, too small. So we sold it.
We moved into a trophy-wife of a house. It was new, bigger. The walls were pristine, the carpets spotless and even the shadows on the boys’ walls seemed friendlier. Admittedly, it was a little weird to be in a house that had no history and no memories. If our other house was a cranky middle-ager, this house was a week-old puppy. The big backyard beckoned for play. The sunny, bright playroom yearned to be filled with loud, obnoxious toys. It was all a blank canvas just waiting to be introduced to Crayola, Fisher-Price and Pepperidge Farm. We were nothing if not its perfect match.
And our old house? It finally got what it wanted. A crumb-free existence. A life of peace and quiet and emptiness. Nobody slammed its cabinets or spilled juice on its tiles. No “Dora the Explorer” blared from the TV. Nobody sat sulking in its laundry room “until he’s ready to be a good boy.” Once again, the house could just sit and think and look at the trees and the grass and settle.
And the house was never more miserable.
Then one day, a moving truck pulled up to the house. A young couple moved in with their stain-free furniture, delicate artwork and pampered cats. The house stood up straight, gave its shingles a shake and tried for a welcoming smile. Then it looked for the kids. Listened for their tiny, wonderful voices. Waited to feel their sticky fingers exploring its walls. Strangely enough, it didn’t find any. Stranger still, even though it was occupied again, the house still felt empty.
And then, in the house’s mind (which is located by the water heater), and idea formed. Using all of its might, the house gave a small shudder (“Just the house settling, dear”) and knocked a forgotten baby toy out of a cabinet to land at the couple’s feet. They smiled, looked at each other fondly and said, “Must be a sign.” The house then creaked in contentment. Hi, it said to them. I’m your house.
Live in me.
oh how i love this post. we moved into our house a year ago – the third owners since it was built in 1949, and in this year we (and by we i mean my 3 kids) have managed to destroy just about all the original details (doorbell, bathroom fixtures, tiled floors) that had survived 50+ years. but with us? not even one frickin’ year.
i am also never moving again.
That’s so sweet. It’s utterly un-Wendi-ish, but truly sweet & achingly lovely.
Wow, I really wasn’t expecting this. Instead of laughing, I’ve got tears in my eyes. Lovely.
Happy moving.
So, what? You’re both a hilarious AND beautiful writer? Gah. Life is so unfair.
(Kidding, of course. Loved it.)
I am sitting here weeping. We close on the sale of our house, the one I brought 3 babies home to, tomorrow. A childless couple is buying it, and now I KNOW the house is going to miss us.
Sob.
Oh, how I ache to move into a bigger, newer house, but that house won’t be the one we brought our kids home to. The one that saw the struggles of sleepless nights and served as our first real home. Sigh. Lovely post.
I am smack dab in the middle of an overwhelming urge to move. I don’t have nearly as tight a relationship with my house as you did with yours. So maybe the inevitable move won’t be as difficult for me, or the house.
Really though, this is lovely. Good luck with your latest move.
What a sweet post! Beautifully written.
That one was a gem.
Moving away from the house you’ve had your kids in – no, not on the guest room bed – is so bittersweet. I know I’ll always remember that first place. And then I’ll throw my body under the wheels of a Uhaul.
Really lovely, Wendi.
You are a writer, my friend. Great piece. Have you tried to publish this. I can see it in either The Statesman, or better yet, CultureMap.
I remember this. Beautiful.
Good luck with the transition!
How absolutely lovely, Wendi.
Favorite line: Nobody sat sulking in its laundry room “until he’s ready to be a good boy.” ha ha ha
When we moved into our house pre-babies, I said, “Never again.” 17 years later, we are still here. They’ll have to pry my dead fingers off the door ramb if the time ever comes. I love it – crazy floors and all!
Great post, WA.
I love that your old house’s mind is located by the water heater.
I was just thinking that ours lives behind the toilet when I got to the part about the Potty Success Chart. And that’s when I knew for sure.
My house is a sucker for praise.
Among other things.
I loved this post. And I wish you much joy in any home you ever choose to live in.
Loved this one, Wendi. Glad you reposted because I missed it the first time. Happy moving!
Turn this into a children’s book and you can go head to head with marinka.
“Every window had tiny finger smudges and every toilet was suddenly perplexed by its new importance.” So funny!
This one always brings a smile and a bit of a tear to my eye! Oldie but goodie for sure!
This is utter poetry, Wendi!!! Love it! <3
That was a sweet story. Hope your new house loves you as much as you love it.
Sweetest fairy tale I ever read.
So.very.sweet.
I like it when Wendi gets down and sweet every now and then.
xo